Review: CalExotics Red Hot Ember

My clitoris is so picky when it comes to sex toys that I sometimes wonder if it has it’s own split personality. The toys that blow others away usually fail to summon even a flutter from my stubborn lady bits. When I saw the CalExotics Red Hot Ember I was immediately drawn to it. The concept of the tongue like tip flickering against my most sensitive of areas sounded too good to miss.

CalExotics is a company with over 20 years experience in the industry producing a wide range of premium products for men and women. They claim to be the first company that had an all-woman design team and even designed an eco-friendly solar powered toy!!

WP_20170420_19_40_11_ProI’m not usually someone who is bothered by packaging as it usually gets destroyed in my childlike haste to get to the contents but the Ember is particularly nice. Apart from having a rather amorous couple on the front, it is made from sturdy cardboard and plastic with a foam insert that holds the Ember and the charger cable. It is such good quality that I will undoubtedly be keeping the toy stored in it.

Visually the Ember certainly lives up to it’s name as it shaped like a flame and is an incredibly vibrant red. It is made from super soft, premium, body safe silicone. The only interruptions to the seam free silicone are the control button in the base and the charging port.

CalExotics Red Hot Ember

CalExotics Red Hot Ember

After a full charge the Ember will last approximately 30 minutes on the highest setting and 3 hours on the lowest setting. Personally I don’t think I could manage 30 minutes on the higher speed without turning to mush and passing out! I’ll leave that to the Power Queens.

I found this a really easy toy to use. Just press and hold the power button for 3 seconds to switch on or off and quick press to cycle through the 10 options of vibrations, pulsations and intensity. As well as having differing levels of speed, it has different patterns to suit everyone’s preferences. My inner nerd particularly liked that the light on the base flashed in sequence with the pattern – the small things in life!

So, is the flickering tongue more style over substance?

Not even close!! In truth I was blown away. It really takes no effort and for lazy masterbaters like me this is perfect!! If you hold the Ember lightly you can really feel the tip flicker against your body, under firmer pressure you feel the pulsating vibrations. At its top speed the tip vibrates in a completely blur & leaves you wanting more.

Don’t be fooled by its petite dimensions, the Red Hot Ember sure does pack a punch with pinpoint precision. It is made extra special with a slick of water base lube.

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If you are in the market for something a little different to the usual bullets and wands, the Ember is one for you. You won’t regret it


  • Material: Premium body safe silicone
  • Size: Length 5 inches
  • Vibrating, pulsating precision tongue like tip.
  • USB rechargeable
  • Waterproof: Yes, 100%
  • Recommend Lubricant: Water based.
  • Price: £44.99*
  • Orgasm Rating: 🌟 🌟 🌟 🌟 🌟

The CalExotics Red Hot Ember is available from  and other leading retailers.

*price accurate as of April 2017 from 

*Affiliate links have been used in this post

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